Letting a cat sniff you allows them to become familiar with your scent on their terms, which helps them feel more comfortable with you.
Let Them Sniff
Offering tasty treats when you approach is a positive reinforcement that will pique their interest and make them eager to spend time with you
Give Treats
Stroke cats slowly so they can choose to move away if they dislike a particular type of touching to avoid chasing them off
Pet Gently
Engage aloof cats with games like chasing laser pointers or trailing cat toys on strings to get them positively stimulated and associated with you.
Play Games
For most cats, rolling around in or chewing catnip releases endorphins that elicits positive emotions they'll associate with you.
Offer Catnip
Don't overwhelm cats with too much unwanted cuddling or restraint, which can cause them to avoid interactions.
Avoid Overhandling
Gentle brushing feels good and leaves their scent on the brush, helping create positive grooming associations.
Brush Their Fur